Hello guys ! Today this girl wanna to share some tips that I got from the websites that I think its really useful for all of us to practice. Hihi. This is about some tips on how to maintain a friendship. Even its just a simple ways to do, but sometimes we forget to act and do like that.
The first one is show appreciation . You need to remember that you should always say thank you for your friend when they do something for you even just a little things. Other than that don't forget to helps as a return favors when they needs. Once a while, tell your friend how much you appreciate them. This doesn't have to be an awkward or long-winded speech that you have prepared. It can be as simple as, "Hey, thanks for always being there for me. I appreciate it."
Second, show some interest in your friend's life. A good friendship should be two-sided and hopefully, you have a friend who shows interest in you as well.
--> If your friend is involved in an activity that they care about, show your support and interest. Offer to go to their events. For example, if your friend plays a sport or is acting in a play, go to a game or performance to cheer them on.
Next, support each other when things get rough. Sometimes friendships can get rocky or friends can have a hard time dealing with their own personal problems. Though it may not be fun, these are situations where a real friend has to step in and be there. Just tell your friend, "I'm here for you. Just let me know what you need and I'll help you out."
Last but not least,
The first one is show appreciation . You need to remember that you should always say thank you for your friend when they do something for you even just a little things. Other than that don't forget to helps as a return favors when they needs. Once a while, tell your friend how much you appreciate them. This doesn't have to be an awkward or long-winded speech that you have prepared. It can be as simple as, "Hey, thanks for always being there for me. I appreciate it."
Second, show some interest in your friend's life. A good friendship should be two-sided and hopefully, you have a friend who shows interest in you as well.
- Be a good listener. When your friend talks to you about something that's going on in his or her life, really listen. Good relationships are built on communication, so don't ignore your friend.
- Take the time to really hear what they're saying, and offer advice only if they ask for it.
- Don't fidget or play with your cell phone while they're talking to you.
--> If your friend is involved in an activity that they care about, show your support and interest. Offer to go to their events. For example, if your friend plays a sport or is acting in a play, go to a game or performance to cheer them on.
Next, support each other when things get rough. Sometimes friendships can get rocky or friends can have a hard time dealing with their own personal problems. Though it may not be fun, these are situations where a real friend has to step in and be there. Just tell your friend, "I'm here for you. Just let me know what you need and I'll help you out."
Last but not least,
- If you hear someone else gossiping about your friend, stand up for them. Say, "That's my friend, and you shouldn't be talking about him/her like that."
- Don't try to rush the friendship, then your friend might get confused or scared and turn in the other direction.
- Even if you haven't spoken to an old friend in years, it doesn't mean that you're not friends anymore. Reach out and see if you can pick up where you left off!
- If your friend is not reciprocating or trying to maintain the friendship, you should talk to him or her about it. If he or she still doesn't want to put in the work, it might be time to end the friendship.
Reads more : http://www.wikihow.com/Maintain-a-Friendship
good entry, reminds me to do that for my friends
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